Over the years I have personally and professionally experienced the vulnerability, hurt, anger, judgements, shame, rejection and pain. This supported me to uncover and self-facilitate the unravelling of my conditioning in my process to be me – the real Melinda.
I was told by an employer “love your personality but you don’t fit here”. So I created my own business where I did fit. The fitting was actually about fitting in me. As an employer I consciously worked on creating and developing a transparent culture, that supported the personal growth and development of the people in my businesses. I understand compliance, policy and procedures and human processing. I also have put my businesses into liquidation.
I am so blessed to have met, got to know, shared with and worked with so many people who have a wealth of difference, similarities, complexities, stories, beliefs, rawness, backgrounds, processing and humanness.
And I have driven many thousands of kilometres in Australia, met amazing people, had painful, joyous and bizarre experiences personally and professionally, been a representative in the first New Zealand Women’s Dragon Boat team, and I love milk with a touch of coffee.
I am rich in my experiences that are so diverse on the spectrum of amazing to devastating and I would not change any of it.
I made a difference to my internal world which made a difference to my external world.